Well, this is awkward. My ex-husband really was my best friend and we were going to get married next year. We all just kind of let it happen and now I’m not getting hitched to anyone but my daughter? Ugh. But he’s also the one who broke up with me — not because he didn’t love me properly or want to be with me anymore, but because he was a dick!I mean, sure, he was a bit of an ass most of the time (yes, even before I found out about his past), but sometimes you have to cut people some slack if they’re your best friend or relative. Ugh. In other news… Gramma – yes she still hurts from that relationship though! She said she was ‘trying to make peace with herself’ and she gave as good as she got! But seriously, what can you do? She just wants to be at home one more time and go back to being her normal self again. So here we are again, fresh out of honeymoons and looking for a new one. Or maybe we should just give up on trying for a second time and get back on track? Who knows? All I know is that Gramma is stuck in our broken marriage now so good luck moving forward from there!
What’s next?
So, now that we’ve got that out of the way, what’s next for us? We’re going to go ahead and get hitched next year as planned. After that, we’re going to take some time for ourselves and figure out what’s next for our two kids. We’re going to help them navigate the transition from mom to dad, we’re going to support them in any way we can, and we’re going to be there for them when they need us when they have questions or want advice. It’s going to be an amazing time together.
So, who’s next?
Well, you’re going to meet your future husband in a few months time. We’re going to get married in June. So, you and your future husband will have the most amazing relationship ever. You’re going to be able to spend the rest of your life with somebody you love and laugh with, and he’s going to be able to spend the rest of his life with his family and friends.
5 ways your ex-husband broke up with you
First, we’re going to get back together as a family. You and Gramma are going to be the center of our lives together, and we’re going to spend the rest of our lives together as a family. You know that, and I know that, too. Next, you and your ex-husband are going to have a talk. You’re going to have a heart-to-heart and you’re going to have a talk about the past, the present, and the future, and you’re going to have a talk about how you’re going to get back together and make your life better. There’s no way around it. Third, you’re going to have a family emergency. We have a new baby on the way, and we don’t have a lot of time to get it ready. Your ex-husband will have to take care of the kids while we’re gone, and he’ll have to take care of the new baby while we’re gone, too. So, you’re going to have to go in and help your ex-husband take care of the kids while you look after the new baby.
Confessing the truth about why you broke up with him.
You and your ex-husband have had a history, dating back to high school, and you’ve known since day one that he was a piece of shit. You know how he was when he was in high school, and you know how he was when he was in his 20s. You know he’s a drunk and a sexual predator, and you know that he needs to take responsibility for his actions and pay the consequences for what he’s done. You’re going to have to tell him the truth about why you broke up with him.
3 steps to get back together with your ex-husband asap!
So, first off, decide what you and your ex-husband have going on in common. If you’re actively looking for a relationship again, then this is the time. It’s been a while, you’ve been through a lot, and you need to get back to the dating game. Once you have a solid plan for how you’re going to get back together with your ex-husband, you can start building a relationship with him. It’s important to communicate with your ex-husband whenever you get the chance. You don’t want to get on the wrong side of your ex-husband, who just wants to be there for you and your kids as best he can. So, open up your communication lines as much as possible. You don’t have to say anything that you don’t mean, and you don’t have to explain yourself to anyone.
Step 1: Take a few days off from work and spend some quality time together.
You may be wondering why you’re even talking to your ex-husband now. Well, he’s going to have to take the first step towards getting back together with you by taking a few days off from work and spending some quality time with you. So, he can say hello to his daughter, he can see how she’s doing, he can see how you’re doing, and he can get a feel for how you’re doing. After that, you can start the conversation again. You don’t have to say anything that you don’t mean, and you don’t have to explain yourself to anyone. You just have to show him how you feel.
Step 2: Go on a date. Or more preferably, go home with him. And then put pen to paper and say “I do” again!
You and your ex-husband have spent the majority of your life together as a couple, and you’re going to spend the rest of your life together as a family. You’re going to have to start living life as a family again, and you’re going to have to start living together as a household again. You’re going to have to start showering your spouse with affection and making niceies and being there for him when he needs you. You’re going to have to start putting on the gloves again and helping him through this difficult time together. You just need to show him how you feel. You just need to show him how you’re doing. You just need to make him proud of you.
Step 3: Walk away from his texts. Or, if you still find them very helpful, leave them completely. Or, just…not walk away from his texts.
You and your ex-husband have had a history, dating back to high school, and you’ve known since day one that he was a piece of shit. You’ve known that he’s a drunk and a sexual predator, too, and you’re going to have to start living your life as a family again and showing him that you’re taking care of your family as best you can. You’re going to have to take responsibility for your actions and pay
